This past Sunday was my 29th birthday! 27 and 28 were some wild rides-I’m looking forward to whatever 29 is going to bring! I went out on Friday night and Saturday night with different groups of friends. Friday night I spent with my hippie loves and Saturday night a mix of many different friends. Friday…not… Continue reading 29! And Rape Culture?
Well, I finally have time/motivation/energy/internet in order to write new post! Life has been so freaking crazy! It’s chilled out a lot now that we’re in September. The day after I wrote my last post we were under a new moon and I spent a lot of time outside at night…I finally felt like I… Continue reading …What Is Happening…
So I spent 5 days in Indiana last week. It was a great trip-completely paid for by one of my best friends! She knew I needed time away and she needed someone to have fun and relax with because she had her own personal stressful life-shit happening. It was a great time away-a perfect escape… Continue reading What is this post even about?
Some synonyms for embarrassing are: shaming, humiliating and mortifying. Unfortunately, so many sexual assault victims end up being the ones who are left feeling embarrassed-shamed-humiliated. You know why? Because of statements like: “She was drunk. What did she expect to happen?” “You need to start making better choices.” “Maybe if she hadn’t been dressed like… Continue reading What Is Embarrassing?
On Friday I talked all day with Jane about the whole situation with Andrew. Something that she told me at the end of the night was, “you might have to accept the fact that you were possibly a long-term conquest for Andrew.” Of course, I have thought about that many times. Jane always told him… Continue reading Mark Him Off Your List And Move On
I didn’t realize I was being used my body and soul completely abused when you offered drinks, I wish I had refused “Maybe you’re breaking my heart,” I mused. never in my life have I felt so rejected now I walk this road-alone and dejected you and I seemed so emotionally connected but beautiful liars… Continue reading My Mistakes
He also told our friends that I initiated everything, which isn’t true. He very intentionally told me “I’m so drunk right now” before anything happened. And then again in the morning, “I was so drunk last night, then I was not drunk, then when we got back here I felt drunk again.” I asked Meg… Continue reading The Truth Is…pt. 2